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Patti

No judging! so me and my husband have always enjoyed anal. not something we did all the time but every now and then we…

No judging! so me and my husband have always enjoyed anal. not something we did all the time but every now and then we did it. it's been 17 days since I've had my son and I had a second degree rip. I'm not sore at all anymore nor am I bleeding anymore. my husband asked if maybe we could try anal until I heal up good. (he's not pressuring me nor is he obsessed with sex) I was just wondering if anybody has done this or thinks it'll be okay or should we just wait a few more weeks?

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pperry

Patti

@1sttimemummy, @averysmom8_3_16 @nygirl3rdbabymiami thank you ladies. feels better to know um not the only one thinking about it lol

sherrynygirl

sherry S

I ve had 2 sons 2pregnancy s before only bled for 2wks with each but,,,,i did wait the full 6wks until your uterus heals ,,,it's up to you but.,,if you go ahead with it make sure your extra clean yourself so nothing gets infected ..

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Kamara

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i bet! lol i would be dying too and my pregnancy had me wanting to rape him lol...if you get the ok from your doc tell him.to be gentle!!!

1sttimemummy

Tiffany

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I completely understand my husband and I will be the same way haha I'll most likely be the one wanting some haha I just wouldn't want to risk it! ugh tearing again would be so painful! And trust me, I'm sure you're doctor has had more awkward conversations than that haha

pperry

Patti

@averysmom8_3_16, I've thought about it but never said anything cause I'm kinda scared this early on but he suggested it so I actually started thinking about it. and we've always had a healthy sex life so almost four weeks now is killing us so to say lol

pperry

Patti

@1sttimemummy, I think I've given him more BJ's since I've had the baby than I ever have lol its not only him wanting too I thought about it but I'm just scared and idk how I would feel about asking my dr lol that's kinda awkward. but I totally appreciate your input! I know it's an awkward topic so I didn't expect anyone to jump in and talk lol

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Kamara

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i would check with my doctor first but i feel you girl lol...waiting for Julius to suggest that!

1sttimemummy

Tiffany

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I would probably wait :/ But, you could always check with your doctor or just do oral

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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