So I'm 8 weeks postpartum. Me and my fiancé just has sex for the second time since I've been on birth control. Well this time he pinky promise he wouldn't nut in me ( but he did both times). So I'm freaking out in my head that I'll be pregnant. I can't afford another baby right now. I thought he'd understand. I'm about to totally reframe from sex. Any advice? Where can I get a chastity belt?
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@aheggs3, my boyfriend is the same way!!!! Now he is literally cut off from the cookie jar and when he tries to sneak his way around there he gets a nice fist to the balls 😂😂 he knows to leave me alone then 😂😂😁😎😏
@winnie633, girl im so serious he does not play around he buys condoms in bulk lol
You're on birth control you probably don't need the plan B. Try not to stress yourself out about it! I'd refrain from withholding sex from him.. If you feel that's the only way to get him to understand, then try not to keep it from him for too long😕 I have learned the hard way it just makes things complicated.. Maybe just a week or so to make your point. Just my opinion 😊
check if ur doctor can give u a prescription for it mine did
I did talk to him both times. So I'm just not going to have sex anymore. I'll make him think I'm uninterested in him so he'd leave me alone. But I'm super scared. A plan B pill is expensive too 😢 @forever223
I'm sorry but that is totally betraying your trust. I'd make him wear a condom next time. If he wants "the goods" he can wrap it up since you can't trust him to pull it out. My husband pulls that same crap, and I'm pregnant with baby number FIVE, and my oldest is only 4! (Not complaining I love my babies to pieces, just wish I'd be a part of the planning a little more instead of it being a huge "whoopsie" surprise from my husband). You're on birth control so you should be okay, but if I were you I'd definitely talk with him and tell him that you're hurt that he isn't taking your feelings seriously.
Lmao @babygirl10-11 your man won't look at you without a condom on😂😂 surely made my night!
He's insane. I'm hurt because I'm freaking out and nervous. @babygirl10-11
your dude is bold lol my man wont even look at me without a condom on 😂
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@rylees_mommy, I should try that