Preach...even when you got your shit together its still hella hard. I dont get it either...i just keep it scrolling...lmao

I'm gonna speak up and out on this I agree if you can't take care of yourself then no no baby for you but I've also been on that side of the fence looking over and I was put in a bad situation because of my mom but I pulled up my big girl panties got a job my own car and place it's all about how you handle it if I had stayed in the pity party for tara mode yeh I had no business having a baby but I realized ok I'm in hot oil I need to figure out how to get out and I did

ikr smh... girl I'm 21 with my own and my boyfriend has his own and we still were like dang we about to have a baby lol it took us a minute to adjust but our son is almost here now.... and another reason I feel like she don't need another kid is cause she has every excuse for why she can't work...babies cost money..how you can't work cause your legs hurt real bad but they not hurting when you trying to make a responsibility

right! I got a girl on my Facebook that purposely got pregnant and she asks for handouts and free shit and ppl to loan her money all the time. like really. if you can't even afford a baby before it's here you for sure don't need one! I feel bad that a baby has to do with out just cause of selfish ppl

@keeganmommy, see that's ridiculous! Her entire pregnancy is going to be stressfulAF because you can't even provide. People just don't understand how real this shit gets. It's not just about having a cute baby on your hip.

I totally agree... I know a girl back home that don't even have a place for her and her son to stay and she lost a baby recently and trying to get pregnant again by a dude who ain't no good and still lives with his mom...yall have nothing to offer a child but trying to have another

#FACTS

@rainbow0601, yes I posted what they message me, it had to many complaints 😂😂😂

No way!! they did?!? That's some bullshyt @babyj0916 what you said was the TRUTH

@mimiz, 😂 RIGHT!

I just pray for them cause they need it😭😭

@babyj0916, they were mad because you made sense! Lol.

Man I asked God to lay his hand and scurried along 😂 just reading the post made me imagine one of them crazy movies

If you know you not Financially stable why get pregnant???? Like that's crazy 😭😭

I love you too, I'm still tryna see why were they so mad at me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@babyj0916, 😂😂😂 & that's why I love you! You always have me cracking up.

@mimiz, were probably talking about the same thing then. I'm just too confused about it all, not that I even need to understand but it's like "WHAT!? Who WILLINGLY gets pregnant in that type of situation?" 🙄

I was reading this page I had to BLOCK the mess

@dang_dridri, I went off on the people in my comments tho cause they felt some type of way but Idc Ima still say what I want 😭

@babyj0916, well I guess they'll be removing this one too pretty soon. 😂 They've been deleting EVERYTHING lately!

Hey they removed my post because I spoke on that 😂😂😂