Alyssa Paige
paigepie
Alyssa Paige·Мама дочки (6 лет)

Okay this has less to do w/ baby & more to do w/ me just wanting to vent. But my boyfriend and I have been together for several months now. The entire time he has been legally separated, but still technically married. This is because his lovely wife has done any and everything to drag out the divorce as long as possible. She has every single piece of furniture or money they acquired while together, he is signing over the car to her so she isn't vehicleless. He basically gave her everything and said I just want to finally get divorced and move on with our lives. This impacts me because obviously we don't want this to be how our relationship functions, and because we are trying to have a baby amongst infertility issues. Today we find out that she tried to take out a loan using his name and ssn, so now we get to deal with claiming fraud on top of trying to get this divorce finalized and over. I'm upset because I won't be intentionally trying to bring a baby into this messy situation, and I'm tired of it. It's already hard enough to have a baby thanks to the fact that he had testicular cancer, and now we can't even plan for one, despite being ready for almost a year, because she has decided that she hates me. High school really never ends. I'm just pouty today and ready to try for my second little one. Adults are allowed to foot stomp right? If so I am about to foot stomp tantrum so hard.

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paigepie
Alyssa Paige·Мама дочки (6 лет)

Luckily for us it will. They don't have children together, so once the divorce is final it can be the end of the line. It's just getting there that is the struggle. She seems hell bent on making sure he can't move on properly. It's just frustrating when you're ready to have a baby and a life and it's been dragging on for ages over petty nonsense.

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lovebeingmommy
Ally·Мама сына (1 год)

oh the struggle is so real. I am a step parent. so dealing with the ex is going to be a life long thing. it doesn't ever get any easier

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Christy Pfeiffer
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Christy Pfeiffer·Мама двоих (младенец)

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!

lillyb Good job giving ur self a break we all need them. See if maybe she will nurse
delete____ I have to commend you for stepping away, momma!! Everyone reacts to a child screaming differently and
imisssleep123456789 Ugh I remember those days. With both kids I decided to always top them off with formula.
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