so I need opinions... I'm 9 months pregnant with a little girl and have a little boy who's almost 2. I have only ever been with their dad. however he went to minesota 5 months ago almost and decided to cheat on me the entire time, lie and decide he doesn't want to come back because he wants to build his life there, with this girl, anyways our entire relationship has pretty much consisted of him cheating and I have come to terms with us not being together and it's for the best. now my dilema.... I met this guy, wasn't really looking for one or even planning on being with anyone at all BUT he is extremely nice, good looking, mature responsible and has some other really good qualities he also has a son that is 3 perfect since I have a son. I ended up hanging out with him yesterday and things went really great but I feel bad.... like I shouldnt be meeting anyone or hanging out with anyone. he obviously knows I'm pregnant and that I have a kid we have a lot in common.... should I feel bad for hanging out with him or wanting to see him? I feel like it's almost selfish of me and because I have my kids i shouldnt be seeing anyone. I don't plan on jumping the gun and having him start meeting my son and stuff but idk i have no idea how to explain what I'm feeling but idk what to do really.
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Make sure he treats your children great, and you great as well. It could lead to very good things. I personally have a great relationship with my step dad & im very grateful my mom met him
don't feel bad, my best friends ex nutrients cheated on her while she was pregnant, she left him and meet another guy (also not looking) this guy has been with her and had been the dad to her daughter since she was 4 months pregnant. they have been together 8 years and she couldn't be happier plus she had their first child together last month.
@nyckolle00, nope nothing wrong with it at all one mans trash is another mans treasure. My kids are 6&5 and I went through the same thing with their father then I met the man that I'm now married to and expecting our 1st baby together. When I say I'm so glad I took that step to see him and continue to see him I've never been so happy in my life. My older kids absolutely love him and it amazes me how he loves them they even call him daddy. Their biological dad is not even in the picture he doesn't even call to speak to them. So live your life for you and your babies and let him think the grass is greener on the other side
Don't feel bad at all! Do you! You can be happy too!!
There is absolutely no wrong in wha you're doing! You deserve to pursue happiness as well ! & if someone is willing then take the chance you are not being selfish one bit ! He cheated!
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
Pray. Be friends for a while then once divorce final then can start relationship