I am SO FRUSTRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm living with my child's father and wtf, this house is infested…

I am SO FRUSTRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm living with my child's father and wtf, this house is infested with gnats! Everyday I wake up and the first thing I do is go straight to the cleaner bottle in attack mode. I can't leave any dishes overnight as 30 will be in the sink. If I leave no dishes I'll find five or six on the sponges. They are little small red gnats and I've seen small black ones with thick wings. Today I just discovered that there are now MOTHS in the house! I keep this place so clean! It's like I'm being punked or in the twilight zone. I hateeeee bugs in the house.'I'll never kill a bug outside as I believe that's their space but if you're in the house it's war! I asked his dad upstairs about the moths and he told me that they can get into your food. I went to the pantry to check and low and behold they were in cereal boxes and our pancake mix! I had to throw everything away. I'm so frustrated and pissed and so damn confused. How in the hell are they getting in and whyyyy are there so many bugs? Any ideas? Please help. It's driving me crazy. There's no way I can bring a baby here in 40 days. Bugs carry germs and my little nugget won't be getting sick because of those suckers! I will be at home with my mom in Chicago until this house is up to my standards if this problem cannot be fixed. Agh!😭😭😭😭. I literally started crying when I saw the moths because that makes three types of bugs roaming in the house and I have no clue how they're coming in. Windows and doors are not left open.