Love when my sons father asks if he can come see our son Saturday. I say of course. You know you can…
Love when my sons father asks if he can come see our son Saturday. I say of course. You know you can see him anytime you want. Friday comes I ask him what time he's coming over Saturday and he says what's Saturday? I said ummm ur suppose to see your son?? He responds with oh. So I asked if he wanted to change it to Sunday to allow him more sleep or what ever. He said yes. So yesterday came. I asked him what's going on with tomorrow. He told me he's be here at 10am and depending on the weather we'd go to the park so they could play. I said okay. Just text me first so I can tell you if he's up. If he's still asleep we might have to wait till 11. He said that was fine.
Here it is 2pm. Yet no text call or show. This happens everytime. I'm getting tired of this. I'm pissed. Because I made sure to ask if he had work this weekend and he said no. He was just with his girlfriend. It's nice to know who comes first to him....
I'm angry cuz it's my son who will get hurt in the long run. 😕
Monique·
Мама троих детей
That really sucks... My dad did that to me when I was a child. Worst feeling ever, I used to stay at the window and wait all day!! Just don't tell your son the plans... If you do he will expect it and be disappointed. If he comes ... Great! If not... Your son won't even realize! You can't force him to prioritize or be a man but you can protect your son from the hurt!!! @growingmamaof2
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
@kissesz30, I was planning that. He's one now so I don't have to worry yet. And @alana_sunshine he lives in a apartment literally across the hallway from my moms (witch is where we live cuz he threw us out). And dcf told me not to do that anymore and to let him choose to be a father or not.
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
Worse part is we went to court for child support cuz he has a big two bedroom apt. And kicked us out and we're now with my mom in a tiny one bedroom and he wouldn't give me money for diapers or food for our son. And the lady said oh we're gunna give the mom full soul physical legal custody. I said hold on. And I explained that it ment that he would have no rights what's so ever to our son and would have no say and she explained as well and we asked if that was okay with him. He said yep and signed the papers. But recently he asked to have it changed so he could have some say legally with our son. Thinking he was changing I asked why in hopes to hear cuz he wanted to be a dad. Instead he says because my self esteem is really low and it'd make me feel better about myself if I had some say so I don't look like a deadbeat or like nothing to people. Wow. It had nothing to do with his son. Just himself. He's with his girl 24/7 and my avusive dad and his family etc but can't make one hour for his son
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
@alana_sunshine, I took him for months and he ignored him. And we have dcf due to him not feeding our son or changing him when I was gone one day. And dcf said to stop. Cuz he has my car and won't let me use it. Kicked us out with no warning. Choosing everyone expect our son and refuses to help. So they told me not to do anything to help him anymore and not to bring our kids to go see him because this will only prove that he won't step on him not seeing Jaden will make him wake up and want to see him
Roselys·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I wouldn't chase him at all. if he wants to be involved good. if he doesn't want to then act like he doesn't exists. it's his lose
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
I just wish he'd choose instead of dragging us through the mud to just pretend he doesn't exist anyways.