I'm sooo sorry ladies but I need to vent.. I'm sooo over my babys father.. I've been in this pregnancy by myslef & I keep trying to work with him & nothings working I'm ready to give up. I can't make him wanna be a father.. I feel so bad for my baby girl.. she deserves so much better.. I wish what I know now I knew then... feeling down tonight..
Yes mommy, I'm only telling u what I've experienced lately... My child's father wasn't speaking to me. I prayed and lately he's been calling and texting to check on her a lot. Just remember God's timing not ours... He's working on your behalf, it's gonna manifest in this natural soon... I'm praying for you
@scoobygirl30, I've been praying for him.. I do all the time. since day1.. I just have to be still..I know I shouldn't grow impatient but I am..
yea, I made the mistake of canceling it the 1st time being stupid&&& he treated me like I was nothing, I honestly just had to pray about the situation...he's currently on child support and co-parenting is a b****,but I'm content.@newmommatobe,
@lexdotjayy, wow... sounds just like what I'm going through.. he comes up with all types of excuses. like he anit did shit. I can barely get him to come to appointment let alone even help me get stuff for her....& he has an amazing job making good money.. but blames everything on me..
@torrilove14, I'm trying soo hard to be ready put him on child support because ik how much of a ass he can be and the arguments that are to come. & I don't wanna deal with it..I've cried & been angry & I just wanna move fwd and be happy with my baby..& thank you i need someone to talk..
My husband runs around saying how much he loves me & the baby but has not done shit for us since June . even when he did , he only bought me food & that was it . Now I have less than 20 days & he's had more excuses than ever before as to why he doesn't have money to give me right now but yet he gets paid every week & makes almost 2000 a month .
it's not gone happen over night trust me, I've cried penalty tears but the 1st step is being brave enough to put him on child support and not look back&&& np,I'm here if you need to talk@newmommatobe
@torrilove14, thank you..I'm trying my hardest to find peace. I just wish he would get it together for her..how can you not wanna be there for your child! it's blowing my mind.
@newmommatobe, Awww I'm sorry feel so bad but just know there are more fishes in the sea..an you will do much better with your baby girl than him
@lexdotjayy, that's my plan too!! he just don't know what's coming! but it's coming!
don't feel bad at all, I went through that with my daughter's "father". it dont seem like it now but you'll find peace when you realize that's his lost.he going to have to explain his ignorance not you. keep your head up hun
@scoobygirl30, thank you soo much please keep me in your prayers. & I'll keep praying for better days as well..thank you for being encouraging..