I feel that it's important for my SO to be at the baby shower.. I know it's more of a women thing…

he pry doesn't want to feel out of place, he'll probably be interested in what u got and still need after the shower. if other males aren't going to be there I wouldn't want my husband to tag along. make him feel any type of way. idk that's just me.

I was planning on having other guys there but it doesn't matter anymore... I'm tired of feeling like I'm the only one pregnant and having a baby I guess...@dawnrose,

I had my husband, sisters husband and friend's husband at the baby shower. I feel that it's his child too so he shouldn't be excluded.

Lots of guys are like that. That's why I made mine coed and encouraged him to invite friends. Try not to take it too personally. I get where you're coming from though.

@teambarnes, exactly... I feel like I'm having a child and he's not... like she's going to be my responsibility... like a dog I have to feed her and take care of her while he gets to sit back and watch and I'm not okay with that... she's his too!!!

@indigenousmommy, I've been reminding him and asking him who he wanted to go that it's his party too...

coed ones are alot of fun

@dawnrose, that's what I thought....

That sucks, maybe you can talk to him and tell him it's important to you for him to participate. If he cares about your feelings he'll go.