I have a question to those who can similarly can relate or understand me or give me the best advice. Me and the father of my son separated when he was 5 months, time flew by fast and our son is turning one in less than 4 days! And my sons father and I aren't in the greatest terms that it came to the point where we can't co-parent together. So he's throwing him out son a party and so am I, so that's separate parties. I feel sad due to how things came this far of us not working things out and how now he's talking to someone else and a girl who is my coworker! I feel mad about that situation but as to what he wants to do for our son upsets me knowing that he's talking to someone else and he thinks I'll be fine showing up to his house looking like a fool.. He expects me to "try" for our kid by showing him later on I life how we managed to supposedly tried to make it happen for our son. I'm just confused about this whole situation and really sad about separate parties..😔 advice!!
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my husband and his baby mama still have seperate parties. this year was the 1st year she invited Us to her daughter bday party. but she had been bitter all that time. its whatever works out for y'all family
y'all could have came together and did parties together. but since you may still have feelings for him..I'd drop the baby off and then let them enjoy then party.
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The best advice I can give you coming from parents who couldn't co parent. Try everything to make it work to co parent. And try to get along or at least communicate and be civil. Bc my mother couldn't do that with my dad and it caused me as so much pain and anxiety. It was so hard and she never understood that. Still doesn't and causes problems abt it and I'm almost 21