so stressed out I want to move closer to my sister in PA but with a new baby coming and our income…

so stressed out I want to move closer to my sister in PA but with a new baby coming and our income it could be hard to find a place and we can't stay with her till we do so we would be homeless or living in a motel then my mom is coming to get my oldest son due to his behavior issues she is gonna take him for a while give both him and I a break which I am sad about but its what's best for both of us right now so I was thinking I could move back to mn where my mom is but its super expensive as far as housing goes but I hate it here so I really don't want to stay and I have no one here so I would end up giving birth by myself because hubby would have to stay with the other kids and that scares me. sorry for my rant just can't decide what to do.