My SO works in car sales so his schedule is unpredictable. This month has sucked so he's choosing to work on all of his days off in order to make up for all of the deals he's missed (he's commission based). With him having no days off though, I've found myself depressed, exhausted, and wanting a break since we have a rambunctious 3 year old. I've told him that it hurts when he hasn't made an attempt at taking one day off since we're not really hurting on money and he gets mad and thinks I'm ungrateful. All I want is a day to myself to do what I want to do because if this keeps up, I'll go from having one kid to two without skipping a beat which just making me think about it overwhelms me. I just want a break. Am I asking for too much?
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@candidbabex, thank you. I told him I appreciate him working hard in order to get everything ready for our family but that sometimes I just need him at home. Even if it's just for a few hours. He gets one day off every other week and two off the remaining weeks. And he doesn't make an effort to take off any of them. I've even asked if he can do just a half day so we can get our house together and organize baby stuff and it always turns into an argument. All I want is help 😩😞😩😞 And I asked him he other day if he's planning on taking off when our son comes and he said only as many days as we're in the hospital and then he's going back. Like wtf?!
@candidbabex, glad you understand! Thanks for talking to me about it. It's all just so stressful.