I am a horrible mother, wife and person. I quit my job gave notice but I am skipping today. I let my mother in law take care of my daughter way more than I should. I dont keep up the house work and make my husband mad a lot. I take advantage of people and I hate myself for it. I am afraid I'm turning into my father and I don't know what to do! I need unbiased advice so if you are willing to listen to me rant then please message me. Im so confused.
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Don't talk down on yourself mama. Sometimes I feel the same way, I always seem to fxck up and piss my bf off. As far as help from your MIL or anybody....girl it's just help, being a mom is stressful especially when you do it 24.7 while the dads work then come home to sleep (of that's what your husband does). I'm a mother of 3 girls...6yrs/2yrs/3wkold and I made him do most the work with the first two but now since my baby been born I've done it all by myself he doesn't even help on his day off...he just handles the older girls which is easy bc by time my 2yo gets home from daycare..she's almost ready for bed and my oldest is self efficient plus starts school Monday. I've been losing my mind sitting here in the house, I rather work but that do=ant make me a bad mom bc I rather be working, making money than just going nuts...same with you just bc you quit your job, get on hubbys nerves, and get help from MIL DOES NOT make you a horrible mom..just makes you human.Remember that.
@mommaalderman, you can message me if you'd like
Yw love....you can always send me a message, I'll always reply once I see it.