what can I do? I'm all alone 17 and pregnant. can any body help

yes.. what u need help with ?

wat do u need help with

everything I'm desperate

where are u from

@teenmom367, there are a lot of resources for teen moms in ca just google it... you will recieve a social worker and they can help you

what do you need help with? You are only 10 weeks you have a lot of time to figure it out. It will be fine, just because you have a man in your life doesn't make it any easier. In my case it made it a whole lot harder. You don't need a man to be a good mom especially at 17

thank you

We'll have you told your parents, or close family yet? The babies father? Anyone? Because if not that's the first thing that needs to happen. Second thing, are you still in school? If so do not drop out because of this baby. Consider all of your options because there is more than one. Can you support this baby? Are you going to be putting yourself and the baby into a bad situation?

I'm in foster care and all alone I was raped so no father I'm. considering adoption I just don't know foster care sucks

I was 17 when i got pregnant. (18 now)

First off tell your parents and the father. Planned Parenthood has some really awesome resources for every direction you could possibly go in. I would give them a call. Feel free to message me if you feel the need to.

this user seems suspicious

what is that supposed to mean

@mamaash why do you think she's suspicious? Because she's asking for help?

agree with these ladies. get help from every resource possible. stay in school and work to provide for this child if you are keeping the child. you will need that diploma. workimg and school will be hard on you i did but I wasn't pregnant so that will make it harder still. but don't give up do it for this child. after high school go to college and perdue any career you want because a career can support uoi for a lifetime where as just a job won't. like I said this will be so tough and you'll want to give up but don't seriously for you and this kid. good luck!

I will stay in school and take care of this baby

@starliightt, yeah no that's no the reason asking for help is fine it's that she only has 4 posts her profile picture is dark. right away she is talking about stuff some people don't just throw out there. if she's real okay apologies but right now I say troll

oh and look her picture isn't dark anymore! 🤔

I agree with @mamaash thought it from the start of seeing the posts, they're repetitive

My sister was 17 pregnant and in foster care. She now is almost finished with college has 5 kids and has a place to live. It will be tough no doubt about it. But if you fight everyday to do better you can make it. My sister is living proof and I look up to her everyday. She's gone to hell and back and now has a great head on her shoulder. You can do it as well. Just finish school get a degree and work. California has lots of places that will help you. Get WIC, welfare will help with child care tell your social worker your pregnant. It will be hard but you can do it.

thanks for believing in me

@vb95, thank you!

whats it problem

I'm just really stressed and overly trusting calm down please

@mamaash Well, when we all started out on this app none of us had 1.2k posts, and she has more pics on her profile, she may just have No one to talk to about her troubles (she did say she was alone) maybe she's just more open than others...as far as the repetive posts, maybe she thinks no one really saw the other ones, I mean idk. But I would think a troll would come here trying to piss someone off by talking about abortion or circumcision not asking for advice lol. @vb95 I mean I'm thinking about if I wanted to troll someone, I'd just want to piss ppl off lol, I don't see what kind of satifisfaction she could be getting from asking people for help. I see a girl who is worried, and is trying to explain her situation.

thank you

well okay! @starliightt

If you got rape how come you don't tell the cops?

I did they the guy us in jail

is

why don't you guys back off my case

I'm not trying to start stuff

teenmom, they don't get the notification of your reply unless you tag them in your comment, hold down you thumb on there comment while your writing the comment and click on "mention" or just put the @ and then their username no spaces, just a helpful tip since you're new. Kinda like facebook. I hope you enjoy your time with us, and if anyone bothers you go to their profile and click the three dots and block them, or you can do it right from their comment. :) And if anyone is being negative or creatig drama or harrassing you then report them.