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Мама сына-младенца, беременна (5 нед.)

So I babysit a 4 month old boy and he doesn't roll over, reach for toys, hold his head up well, etc. should I bring this…

So I babysit a 4 month old boy and he doesn't roll over, reach for toys, hold his head up well, etc. should I bring this up to the mom or is it normal? I know all kids are different so I didn't know if this should be a concern?

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valerie_jean

ValerieМама сына (1 год)

Awh yeah that's hard😔 but 10 minutes out her day will help! Whenever you have the babe just practice ☺️☺️

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jaxmomma

TiffanyМама сына-младенца, беременна (5 нед.)

@valerie_jean, she tries really hard I just think that with her only spending the weekends with them it's hard for her to find time to work with him

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jaxmomma

TiffanyМама сына-младенца, беременна (5 нед.)

@valerie_jean, I feel bad because his mom is a single parent and works at a doctors office like 60-70 hours a week so they are mostly with the grandparents 😕

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valerie_jean

ValerieМама сына (1 год)

Awh, yeah then I don't think he's delayed because of natural causes. I don't think his parents try really, especially after the sister asking why he's being put on his belly cause they never do that.

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jaxmomma

TiffanyМама сына-младенца, беременна (5 нед.)

@babynessa, @valerie_jean @vb95 thanks everyone! I babysit his sister too until she goes back to school and she tells me that he's always held or in his bouncer. She asks why I put him on his belly. It also concerns me that they are still starting him on baby foods when he can't control his head well yet. I just did t want to bring it up and offend her 😔

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vb95

VickiМама сына-младенца

Elliot went to physical therapy because we didn't do enough tummy time with him when he was younger. He had such bad reflux that we were just trying to get him to keep the formula down. His physical therapist said that he was a little bit delayed, within less than a month he caught up. He's rolling over, grabs toys, sits up. I would mention it, kids do develop differently but tummy time is so important, once they hold their head up it opens the door to rolling over and all those other things

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jaxmomma

TiffanyМама сына-младенца, беременна (5 нед.)

@lovinggunnar, yeah I really try working with him but I just wanted to ask some opinions from others instead of jumping the gun and bringing it up to his mom b cause she can be hard to talk to.

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valerie_jean

ValerieМама сына (1 год)

I would be worried. A 4 month old should be able to hold its head very well and be rolling over. I would bring it up in the nicest way possible. Like just ask if they do tummy time with the baby, or if at all. Or if the baby stays in its car seat or on its back a lot.

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babynessa

DeannaМама дочки-младенца

He may be delayed. Try moving his arms and legs and placing toys in his hand to hold. Some kids just don't hit milestones as fast as others just have to work with the child to get them there.

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lovinggunnar

KaylaМама двоих (младенец)

It could be developmental delays but it might be to soon to tell. You could try teaching the babies hear things .

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jaxmomma

TiffanyМама сына-младенца, беременна (5 нед.)

Also, when he's on his belly, he can't lift his head up. Just trying to be concerned 😕

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?