Its really sad that with me being 33 weeks pregnant im under so much stress. My brother has been…
Its really sad that with me being 33 weeks pregnant im under so much stress. My brother has been here from Iowa for 2 months now and my dad & I have told her multiple times that its getting to stressful with me having him all week and him never listening to me and also having my 4 year old (they don't get along) and with my dad not even having his own place or car its up to me to make sure everything is taken care of. I keep asking her to come get him, i emotionally cant handle it anymore and she just laughs and acts like im just over exaggerating and questions my ability to parent 2 kids when ones not even mine he is my brother. having your own is way different. like who just drops their kids off in a different state for 2 months then procrastinates on when shes coming to get them. shes barely talked to my brother, he always asks to go home and she just laughs it off and goes oh well... ugh. im going to end up in early labor if shit dont change. #rant
Taylor·
Мама дочки-младенца
how old is your brother?
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)
He's 8
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@taylorrleee1,
Taylor·
Мама дочки-младенца
that's not right. who could be okay with being away from their child for that long? certainly not me!
Kala Elise·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
wowwww smfh 😕
Naomi·
В ожидании первенца
@ninanicole2 you might want to talk to them you need to put your child first and not stress over other people
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)
I called her and basically flipped out because im sick of the procrastination. She shouldnt have even sent him this long because my dad has been battling pancreatitis (sp?) and is about to end up back in the hospital soon over it. and its just time for them to go home now. its been 2 months its just time. @marcial_naomi
Naomi·
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@ninanicole2 you need to care for your baby it might sound selfish, but now your #1 priority is your kid
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)
I know, which is why im telling my mom to get her children. we have no other family. im in Michigan and shes in Iowa. I cant just leave him to fend for himself and my dad on top of being sick works fulltime. im literally the only one that could help. but shes over welcoming his stay, its just time for her to get them and now shes acting like she cant. so at this rate im stuck putting up with this til she picks them up. @marcial_naomi
Samantha Smith·
Мама сына-младенца
do you have a car that could make it I would take him back myself & tell her I was NEVER watching him again because she wants to pull that bs
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)
We only have one vehicle and my boyfriend cant get any days off before our daughters born to make that drive. and i dont even trust our car to make that drive. but i have made it clear as day this will never happen again. i feel completely taken advantage of. I should be preparing my family and my house for a new edition but instead im stuck constantly breaking up fights between a 4 and 8 year old so i can never turn my head for more than 2 seconds. @abelsmama16
Naomi·
В ожидании первенца
@ninanicole2 wow I know it might sound selfish but sometimes you need to put your foot down. if not take them overthere it's your brother but you need relaxation and not stress right now
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)
Yeah its just not that easy. thats all together there and back a 16 1/2 hours driving. we dont even have working ac in the car. we cant do it. @marcial_naomi
Naomi·
В ожидании первенца
@ninanicole2 dang that sucks.
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)
my dad said if she doesnt get them by next week hes getting friend of the court involved because technically she moved out of state without him agreeing to it and my brother is sharing a room with 4 girls there anyways so he said if she wants to play he can force her back in michigan. which legally he can. so she should really think clearly about this. @marcial_naomi
Naomi·
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@ninanicole2 why would you mom do that? wow. Is crazy do not stress anymore let your dad handle it.