And involvement is HUGE!!! My nephew and his sister are 3 years apart and didn't involve him in the pregnancy and they still do not get along.... But my son was involved in everything except the birth and he did AMAZING! We did sibling classes, helped set up her room, ultrasounds, and when she came allowed him to help with what he could! Made things so much easier

@babiluv3, those are good gaps

yes like @dcb012 says, the gap between can make a huge difference. Mine have a pretty good spread between. My oldest and middle are 3.5 years apart and my youngest and middle are 4.5 years apart.

@ban iluv3, that's great to know

honestly, of course the more children the more expenses. But as far as raising multiples, it seems to just get easier haha

@momof5222, congrats! And I know you are as well

this is our last baby with a grand total of 7 and three Angel babies:) you'll be fine

@no cey85, super mom! I know you have a lot of work

I'm in number 5 an it can b hell at times but as long as ur s/o there u will b fine ...I have one girl in she have the most attitude but she her daddy baby so I don't have to deal with her at all

@it wins188, I bet

@DC b012, thanks for that and the will be 3 years apart when he/she is born

@6thahardway, I hope it will be ok

I have twins are their a handful

Depends how far apart they are. I do have a SO but he works 50+ hours a week, so I don't really have a SO lol. Mine are 3 years apart almost exactly. But I'm adding a 3rd that will be 17 months away from my 2nd. It's busy but schedules are your friend. And once they can play together, it makes life tons easier

it's difficult but I wouldn't have it any other way ( most days)

@he's jes, yes I'm glad I have my SO in just hoping for the best

it's a handful, if your a single parent but if you someone it's not that hard:) im lucky to have my husband and he's such a bug help with my oldest!! @sweetness_mom_of2