Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
My baby is 2 today!! I literally cried myself to sleep last night snuggling with him. (yeah, I let him sleep in my bed last night bc I he wanted to & I wanted him to) lol Why are birthdays so hard for meeee?! 😭😭😭
I'm back home from the hospital. It was a really long and hard weekend.I had my sweet baby boy. These are some of his things they gave him. That's the little hat they put on him and the little blanket they wrapped him up in. They also gave us the bear and keepsake box for his things.
Beth Cotton 🐝·
Мама дочки-младенца
Have you tried swaddling him or putting him in a baby wrap. Try taking a shower with him. I used to with my baby when she got like this and it was the only thing that helped. I wrapped her in her baby towel so she wasn't slippery.
Kelsey·
@mamabee, I swaddled and did skin to skin. I'll try the shower but I'm not sure at this point anything will work. anytime I put him down he cries hysterically. I can't sleep in a recliner due to such horrible back problems so I'm not sure what I'm gonna do tonight if he won't sleep in his own bed.
Cassandra·
Мама четверых детей
co-sleep with him. it works with all three of my children. its a comfort
Beth Cotton 🐝·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mccokel14, I've been where your at and you might need someone to let you get a couple hours of sleep. If you have to leave the baby in his crib, Honestly crying isn't going to hurt the baby.
Kelsey·
@mommys3angels, I have been, but I'm trying to break him. I ended up sleeping with my parents until I was almost 10 years old and if I meet a guy later on in time I don't want my son thinking he is still sleeping in mommy's bed. lol.. he is already getting too spoiled. but I guess one more night won't hurt. ugh...
Kelsey·
@mamabee, I know . its just so sad to hear him cry... I don't have help unfortunately.. my mom works long days and has to have her sleep for tomorrow my dad is at work and my sons father isn't in the picture../: its all me.. sometimes when things like this happen I wonder where I went so wrong.
Cassandra·
Мама четверых детей
my 4 year old sleeps with her own bed the first part of the night and than sometime in the night she gets in be with me even though her bed is next to mine. my 9 month old does the same thing. it will take time but he will sleep in his own bed again. he just wants to feel you
Beth Cotton 🐝·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mccokel14, I co-sleep, you shouldn't feel bad about co- sleeping at this age. It makes it so much easier on us and our babies love it!! Especially, if your doing it on your own!
Kelsey·
@mamabee, oh I love it. I just don't want him getting too big and sleeping In my bed lol.. I worry sometimes with it too. I used to toss and turn but I guess mommy instincts come in play and I don't anymore. I guess my main concern is soon he will be rolling over on his own and I don't want him to fall off the bed.
Kelsey·
@mommys3angels,
Beth Cotton 🐝·
Мама дочки-младенца
Maybe try putting his crib right up to your bed for now. Is he doing any better?
Cassandra·
Мама четверых детей
my 9 month old rolls over but she hasnt fallin off the bed yet. i put a pillow next to her. yes mommy instincts kick in big time when our kids are in bed with us. when my girls are in bed with me i dont move
Kassandra·
Мама двоих (младенец)
co sleep girl
Kelsey·
@mamabee, @mommys3angels @ktwins188 he has horrible gas and hadn't pooped in two days so I tink his tummy hurts. even when he is in bed with me he will sleep for 10-15 minutes and wakes up crying horribly.
Kassandra·
Мама двоих (младенец)
it has to be his tummy . is he burping every oz?