My sister bouta drop off my nephews for the night so she can go get drunk..... This is the same sister who's ass I had to beat in my kitchen at 7 in the morning last summer because she thought it was my responsibility to raise her kids and left them at my house for damn near 3 months..... This is the first time I've been willing to babysit for her since then, and I have an obgyn appointment in the morning smh... I swear on everything I love, she better not be on no bullshit in the morning when it's time to get her kids coz if she makes me late and I gotta bring their bad butts with me, it's gonna be a repeat of last summer!!! #TheseKidsHaveNoHomeTraining
@michelle2220, my mom gets mad at me too coz she wants me to help her all the time but I've got my own shit to worry about
exactly. my mom gets upset at me that I won't help but I'm like no mom I'm not enabling anymore. I have my own life and I'm not gonna live my life around her anymore and get hurt again by her. I hate it so much bc I'd love to have a relationship with my sister but drugs keep getting in the way. it's hard not knowing what to do anymore. I hope things go better for your sister though I really do
@michelle2220, @showersoverflowers yeah at first, I helped her because I felt bad for her... she had just left her boyfriend of 8 years (abusive relationship). I got her a waitressing job where one of my friends work (and she ended up quitting)... but there's only so long that you can use the break up as an excuse to act like an asshole!
well hopefully she will do better with things. my sister has her own apartment and she's a meth addict along with her husband. I feel bad for her bc she's so depressed and wants to get out but her husband doesn't and she doesn't wanna leave him. but I always say no bc I know when I say yes once she'll start taking advantage and I'm not about to go through that again. also I'm too lazy to get out the house haha
That's seriously heartbreaking. send those babies over here. I'm no where near perfect but I could never choose anything over my children
@showersoverflowers, my mom already told her if she doesn't get it together that she's gonna call..... They're dad just got out of jail... they were telling me how he took them on 4 wheelers and was "doing side wheelies" on 2 wheels and going really fast... and he's addicted to Adderall. he's a loser.
Maybe instead of fighting with her, sit her down and tell her you have called cps and they will need to investigate the situation if these types of actions continue. Those children deserve a happy home. poor things are going set up for failure with this type of family situation.
@michelle2220, aside from the fact that she's holding down a job and has had her own apartment for the better part of the past year, she hasn't really matured much. Those 2 factors are really more for survival and her comfort... I feel what you saying though.
I better not have to take them coz I have to get my cervix checked tomorrow and ima ask the doctor to strip my membranes... but my wife will be with me, so if I do have to bring them, she'll just have to sit in the waiting room with them I guess... @chinue
well I mean honestly it's still your fault for saying okay. for my sister I never say okay I'm not about to raise another one of her kids.
lol, riiight!!! and she know I don't play! she run her mouth sometimes, but when I let her know what's what, she shuts the hell up!
yep I know exactly how you feel. I hate it