How did my life go from happy and going just how I wanted to upside down, my daughters dad was only in the picture for for about 2 months then just left the picture, after moving on and meeting someone who wanted to step up and be the dad the my daughter deserves, being the only dad she has ever new for 3 years now, and also the step dad to my son, the real father decided he wanted to come into the picture, this has done nothing but make major problems between my bf and I. We already have big problems with him keeping a job and basically doing the adult things you have to do when your not only in a relationship but when your a dad, he has moved out and only comes around when " he is able " to. This has took a major effect on both of my kids and they think it's ok to start acting out in anyway that they can. I'm really just at lost to what to do. I tried to ask my mom for advice on what to do and now she wants nothing to do with any of us, so that's just another loss for my kids. I'm not sure what to do or even what to think, any mommys been through this or have any advice on what to do? All I know for a fact is that I'm single and staying that way, but my kids shouldn't have to be hurt and suffer the way they are.