Am I a bitch for this? I know sex is important in a relationship but my sex drive has been…

That's how my BD was when I was with him. He'd get so mad at me and i'd have to force myself to do anything and I'd be so uncomfortable or in pain or just plain disgusted the whole time. I hatedddd him even touching me. Lol

Keep in mind your hormones are fueling this anger..... But is it really fair to him either for you to huff and puff if he asks?? If he's asking ALL the time, I understand the frustration but while our bodies are changing and our hormones are heightened, it's also affecting them.... They're feeding off our hormones making them more horny than normal... And yes they need to consider us, sometimes we need to remember our men as well....

i do the same. my sons dad doesnt really care if its oral or sex because it hurts sometimes because i am so tiny. so i give him oral and hes usually fine with it. he says its amazing so one or the other. i know he isnt like the type to cheat now that we have kids but i always remind myself even tho we have been together four years. going on five whatever i do not do for him these young little girls who like to put out will.

@alainasmommy916, ive gotten used to just doing it...i LOVE my husband its not a hatred for him i just hate sex and everything that has to do with it... i just tell him alright we can have sex but if it hurts we are stopping and can try again tomorrow-

mines has given up after I had my kids

@dcb012, i agree 100%- also once that baby is here good luck getting any lol

Yes same. Ugh. He hates me for it. And then he pulls the whole, oh it doesn't even seem like you love or want me anymore. And that pisses me off, it actually kinda hurts sometimes. He thinks it's just me. He thinks I just don't want anything to do with him. And that's not true. I just have 0 interest in anything sexual right now.😒 Even cuddling bothers me because his arms just cause extra weight and I'm already uncomfortable as it is. @babyjjsmommy

I don't think you are. it's ok we are all different. I told hubby I'm sorry but I don't want or feel like having sex and he accepted that. If I feel that he is neglected I will take care of him, not because he makes me feel bad about it but because I feel the need to.

Omg you sound just like how I was, I'm sorry you're going through that! That's how mine was, he'd say I hated him and how I turned into the devil. All because I wouldn't have sex with him 5+ times a day! He was 0 understanding. I hope your man can try and understand that sometimes this happens when women are pregnant everything changes, but it doesn't mean it's something that'll last forever. I understand that they have needs, but when they act like that it's wrong.

That's how I was when I was pregnant. My fiancé had to get over it. I wasn't going to force myself to have sex when I wasn't feeling it. I had sex more towards the end because I was hoping it would start labor around 39 weeks. But when I was 36 weeks my fiancé got back from being gone for 3 weeks and we had sex then which caused contractions and then I refused to have sex again until 39 weeks because contractions suck ass. I hope he starts to understand.

@b3autifulm3ss, I'm on my 3rd baby.... Lol there's always time.... It's about making it. Sex is important in a relationship. Just as communication and trust. Hormones make us crazy. But they have to try and understand as well

@dcb012, this is my 4th- we have 5-so i do know there is time just who the f wants to after taking care of all that bs lol