Vent*
My sister in law is going to drive me through the roof. She is a lazy young thot and gives two shits about it. She don't clean, don't take care of her child, but can party her ass off and talk to guys all day. It's sad when your entire family knows about it and you still don't care, it's even worse when company is over and you still don't show no signs of anything different. How someone who came to my house for the first time asks me why she just left with out telling anyone that she was leaving and just expects us to watch her child. That's embarrassing! I'm sorry but if she don't step it up,I don't want to live w her next year. I rather figure it out but I'm not gunna constantly clean after someone who isn't going to take care of herself. Then want to try and tell me how to take care of my son. Take care of your children. Then come make suggestions. Smh.
A child having a child, it's sad. it would be one thing if she actually helped out and took care of her baby but she just needs to grow the hell up. She's has a hole in her heart she's trying to fill by talking to these dudes that most likely don't even care about her while her baby is with you wanting his or her momma. Something's gotta give.
@rkline03, that's the only reason I do it.. Because it isn't her fault. Hopefully she get it together before the lease is up. If not she gunna have to find some where to go...
@sharondeshonta, I say figure out what is best for her child and only worry about that. it stinks that you have to constantly watch her child but then again it isn't the child's fault
@alana_sunshine, I did stop. So now she just tries to escape with out anyone knowing. Because she knows eventually when the little girl is crying loud enough I'm gunna check what happen or my boyfriend will and then we realize she is gone. He calls her and yells at her to come back, when she does she catches a attitude. They have argued so many times about that.. It's to the point that now I don't come out my room or I look for things to do so she don't try to sneak out. That's the only way it works. If I'm down stairs long enough she will quickly get dressed and leave. Me and my boyfriend are trying to figure out a way to send the little girl back to DR with his mom who has her other child, I told him I can't watch my newborn and her 3 yr old... It's not happening.
@answeredprayer16, trust me we have tried.. I feel so bad for this little girl.. But I'm trying.