ugh its so irritating when friends or family ask me about having another kid. like who said I have to have another, who are you to put that kind of input in. like no I'm going to focus on the child I already have because she could use as much love and attention as I could possibly give her. I get it if you want your children to grow up closer together but your cutting your time and attention in thirds now. I can't do that I already have a hard time cutting my time and attention in half. I get this empty feeling when I'm away from my husband or daughter for too long. I feel an empty kind of feeling when we are having those crazy busy days and I haven't picked up my daughter or kissed my husband in hours. Anybody else