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I'm starting to feel a buit redundant. I'm putting it down to being tired but my oh is 'helping' me so much with…

I'm starting to feel a buit redundant. I'm putting it down to being tired but my oh is 'helping' me so much with everything that I'm starting to feel like I don't have a purpose. He makes and steriliser the bottles, feeds Riley (not all the time though), always pushes the buggy, and is very hands on. He keeps trying to make me have a nap when I don't want to leave my little man.

All this is lovely but I'm wondering where my place is?!

.....like I say, I'm putting my sensitivity down to being tired.

Amy other new mums feel like this?

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beadyeyes93

BethМама сына (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)

My other half was like this and to him it was his way of ahowing how great full he was to me for carrying and labouring him! Enjoy it whilst it lasts 😜 xx

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natroberts88

natalie robertsМама сына-младенца

@mich77, my OH is exactly the same!! I thought it was just mine. I often feel like I'm being left to one side when he's home as he always takes our little boy. It is nice that we both have men that are so hands on though! Xx

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taminah87

TaminahМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

That's very nice an thoughtful of him otherwise what do men know about bring a mum

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rachaellw

RachaelМама сына-младенца

I felt like this. To start with I was greatful as I was so saw from tearing ect. But in the end he was going back to work and I didn't even no how to make a bloody bottle!! So the night before we had to quickly rush through everything as I had no idea. From folding the buggy to hoe to steralise! When he went back to work I soon got the hang of it.

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