Before is better because u get most of the stuff u need for baby

i agree with above comments

Mine was before. I was aggravated, but that was simply because my family was annoying THE SHIT outta me lol. Pros would be the baby still being protected by your belly, because people still seem to think they can just touch my baby without permission 🙄😒 & not having to tend to your baby if he/she is upset by all of the commotion.

before is always better if your like me . I personally don't wanna have a baby shower after bc I'm gonna be recovering and I'm really protective I don't want a lot of ppl touching the baby . before is better bc then ppl get u stuff n then u don't have to get certain things . . I got so much for my baby shower now I hardly have to get anything cause I got most of it at my shower