I've got something heavy on my mind. My sons father left a few days ago for basic training. He had his 6 month old son Kayden there. I asked him if he wanted Rylan there, he looked at my message and ignored it. So I asked his mom if I should drive Rylan up there to see his dad before he leaves. She said he didn't want him there. He hasn't wanted anything to do with Rylan the whole time. He's only seen him 3 times since he was born. But he tells everyone he knows about Kayden, and his he's so proud of him, but he's never even mentioned Rylan to anyone. He change his profile pic and cover pic to Kayden, and now he's gone and his mom says he only asked about kayden when he got one phone call. How can someone love one of their babies, but shut the other one out. Why would someone do that to a 4 month old baby? It's beyond me...