So how is that everybody scolds me if I lift the baby in the carseat, grab some groceries, walk up…

So how is that everybody scolds me if I lift the baby in the carseat, grab some groceries, walk up and down the stairs or carry my 35lb 2 year old bc of my rcs 2 weeks ago but everybody leaves me and my 3 kids home like I'm supposed to just stay in bed and my two other children do for themselves...boy i tell ya. I've had to drive these last couple days bc ppl say I need to ask for help but then when I ask nobody feels up to it or backs out last minute. I feel fine enough to do for me and my 3 bc I don't beg for help..I they know my situation why should I hound you? My oldest starts back school Aug 1st, my middle starts daycare Monday....I'm good👍 *just venting*