Well that's sad that your gonna set there and b miserable at her baby shower .. that's sad that they don't care about your feelings too ... but remember start putting yourself first cause no one else is gonna look out for u like u 😏 @ksharry and I guess it wouldn't do any good of your told your mom or someone that's close to about your feelings ...

I wish my family was understanding. But sadly they are not. So if I don't come, and then say months from now I feel better and go to a friends baby shower. They would start crap with me. So I feel like it's easier to just come and then go home an cry. @vicky810

explain y u couldn't make it later if they have any heart and common sense everybody would understand @ksharry

and remember u come first put yourself first! u don't need!! to go anywhere... it's not mandatory hunni 😏@ksharry

U shouldn't be no where like that after a loss 😐 I had the same thing happend to me at 24 me and my suppose it best friend was prego at the same time ... I lossed my baby ... and hers still progressed .. I didn't go to a baby shower and I wasn't there for the labor I saw her baby when I was good and ready... @ksharry

she should understand if u don't go! in fact every one should understand... @ksharry