thank you@indigenousmommy

I know it's tough, but maybe you can try to accept that he does it and let him know it's ok. I think porn is mostly just a tool for men to take care of business more than it is to look at other women. But if you can't see yourself getting over it I wouldn't be surprised if he hides it. I've decided that getting mad over it is only hurting myself and that I can choose to not let it bother me. But if there are other problems in the relationship I can see how porn would add more tension if he's lying. Sounds like you guys just need to talk about it.

@indigenousmommy, I have brought it up before , but I think I'm more mad about it cause he lies to me when I ask

Embarrassment? I think if it's something you've expressed disgust or anger over they are more likely to hide it.