Please no judgment but I haven't had sex since February 1 month before my baby was born. I'm afraid. I'm nervous. I have sexual trauma from years ago from a previous relationship so sex has always been a hit or miss and there has been a lot of times with my SO that I start screaming and crying because I start remembering that moment from the past. I'm afraid the same thing is going to happen again if I start having sex again. I want to but my fear is taking over and idk how to relax myself.
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take baby step, don't rush it if you personally don't feel ready, my sister went thru something like this and she little by little started to face her fear! @jaaym_
and also talk to your partner about his he has to understand your problem maybe he won't rush you! @jaaym_
@jesjes, I was suppose to do psychical therapy but then I got pregnant and they said I wasn't able to do it. Now I want to see if I can get referred again. I go to therapy once a week and she's helped me with that but when It comes to doing it I get freaked out
have you try taking to someone about your situations?! I mean that isn't something you can over it that easy! @jaaym_
My SO and I barely have sex anymore. I was sexually assaulted as a teenager and it is very hard for me sometimes. I know he doesn't want to hurt me but some times he does things that give me flashbacks.