So I was with the father of the baby I am carried and we were engaged then due to be and other people and drama we…
So I was with the father of the baby I am carried and we were engaged then due to be and other people and drama we cancelled the engagement and regretted it ever since. Then people forced us to break up and no one wants us together. My mother even threaten to kick me out and my family threatens to abandon me if we date again. So we are dating secretly. But he been pulling up engagement and marriage a lot lately again and he says on August 2nd after our ultrasound he has big important plans for us. And I can't help but think maybe he's gunna purpose and idk what to say or do. :/ what would people do if they were in my shoes. We've only been back together for two weeks.
Vanessa·
В ожидании первенца
your happiness should be all that matters yeah that's your family and you love them but the heart wants what the heart wants ...
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
The father of my son doesn't like him yet they used to be friends. And my bf did things wrong but he's getting help and has protected me and loved me more then anyone else. And I feel like you just know when you've meet the one you ment to be with.
jocelyn·
Мама сына-младенца
Do what your heart wants you to do. Family's opinion does not matter at the end of the day you have your own little family to worry about and you don't have to satisfy their needs.... It's what you want. Don't do something to please someone else, that will only make your life miserable.
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
@jayson21_41, this is completely true I've been doing it all my life and have been miserable. Your right
jocelyn·
Мама сына-младенца
If your mom is going to abandon you... Let her, move in with your fiancé and start your life without them allow them to be in your life if they want to, and if they decide not to then it's their loss.... I am currently in the same situation kind of, my family no longer talks to me and they don't want us in their life... So it is what it is.
proudmomma2016·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
i would be with who i want weather people like it or not.. at the end its ur happiness that matters... and im sure you wouldn't tell noone who to be with so your family shouldnt put you through that
Chinue·
В ожидании первенца
of he can provide a stable roof over you and baby's head then go for it
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
He can provide for me my son and our baby but dcf in involved due to my sons father and him. So right now he's not allowed around my son due to him not his birth father (even tho my sons birth father chooses to see him once a month) and my sons father isn't allowed around my son unsupervised. So moving in isn't an option yet.
Jenny·
В ожидании первенца
I'm curious as to why everyone is so against him being in your life... There's got to be a reason for that...
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
He has a bad background. He was in foster care and did a lot wrong growing up and my family are the kind to judge someone on their past then meet them and see who they are now. Plus he started to be selfish and controlling in ways. So now he's in programs and he got the help he needed and doesn't do it anymore but they don't care.