Charney
charney91x
Charney·Мама сына (8 лет)

I'm probably being very dramatic but for the past however many weeks I'm having anxiety attacks over the thought of giving birth, I'm only 25 weeks but it's terrifying the life out of me! 😢

21.07.2016

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emmaelaine
Emma·Мама дочки (8 лет)

I know it's so common. I worked in a hospital for 5 years as a HCA and did some bank shifts on the maternity wards so I've cleaned up my fair share of pregnancy poos lol! @winterbaby95 xxx

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winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@emmaelaine If you do poo hun...the midwives wont tell you.if .you have lol 😂😂😂 They told me I didnt! But I could obviously smell something...they said its very common and normal..they see it all the time Xx

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emmaelaine
Emma·Мама дочки (8 лет)

Awww that's what I'm worried about lol! Everyone bar one person has told me they pooed 😂 @winterbaby95

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winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@emmaelaine I think so yeah lol..I think I could smell it :) if not during..I did after lol...as the medication they gave me..gave me the shits lol...and I couldn't control bowel movements as the spinal hadnt worn off yet...so my bum had to be wiped etc lol..embaressing...but they've seen eveything hun..so I wouldnt worry xxxx

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emmaelaine
Emma·Мама дочки (8 лет)

Ahhhh @winterbaby95 did you poop? This is what I'm most scared of lol xxx

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winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@emmaelaine I think OBEM is a bit dramatic and they have to obviously cut out a lot of what happens :) During labour I was quiet lol and only spoke to ask for water or to ask the midwife if I was pooping when pushing lol... xxx

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emmaelaine
Emma·Мама дочки (8 лет)

@charney91x, I am now able to watch them and they do make me quite excited. I'm very nervous though too. But I really want a Natural birth!! My cosi in hated her first two labours but loved her third. She said she really enjoyed it because she felt prepared. So my plan is try and prepare my self for what could happen lol..... But hold tight for my panicked posts on here when I'm a week away from my due date sat with my legs crossed!! 😂😂 xx

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sara-lou86
Sara-Louise·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)

I never watched OBEM. I played naive to labour. Hearing lots of people's stories didn't help me either! Everyone's different. It's normal to be anxious but try not to over think it. Our bodies are built for labour, to have babies. It's hard but so worth it when you have them in your arms you instantly forget everything else! @charney91x

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charney91x
Charney·Мама сына (8 лет)

@winterbaby95, yeah I guess everyone does get worried. I've always had bad anxiety so like to think it's just that lol x

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charney91x
Charney·Мама сына (8 лет)

@emmaelaine, ah I've never been brave enough To watch it, not sure if that would make me worse or not 😂😂 x

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emmaelaine
Emma·Мама дочки (8 лет)

My cousin has told me to watch OBEM to conquer my fear lol. Worst thing ever!! She thinks that it helped her with the birth of her third. Knowing what could happen, seeing different births etc. I'm not convinced it's helping me 😂😂 more just making me unknowingly do my pelvic floor exercises 😂😂😂

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winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама дочки (9 лет)

Hey hun, if its effecting you that much you can talk to your midwife and they can refer you to someone to talk to :) but hun its natural to be scared of the unknown...even women that are on their 3rd or 4th baby have some anxiety xxx

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