I'm pretty sure I'm have post postpartum depression. Between a newborn, not working and sitting in the house 24/7 plus bills. I'm about to lose my mind. Seriously think I need to talk to my doctor. Can I get some comments on how you ladies with postpartum felt?
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I was just talking to my cousin about this. I had severe depression and having thoughts that scared even me. I regret not talking to my doctor about it. I just went on day by day until I felt better thanks to my husband and mom. I'm pregnant again and terrified I will feel the same but I promised myself and family that I will tell my doctor if I feel the that way. It's important to talk to your doctor. I feel if I didn't have my family there I don't know what I would have done.
I kind of suffered from postpartum depression after I had my first due to me being self conscious about my weight and not accepting my appearance. I made a promise to myself this time no matter what I'm going to eat better and exercise.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
This is NOT happening !!!!!!! I swear I had given up! But I'm 5 days late and I just got my BFP ???
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I feel depressed everyday living at my dad's house. His wife makes sure she makes me feel unwanted. I left my own apartment because I didn't get paid for maternity leave. Now me and my two kids share a room. I couldn't find a store to transfer to here in California. Now I barely have any money. I sit all day sad every about the decisions I have made. I try to pretend like I am happy but I really am not. I have a test to take for a job but I don't have a sitter for my baby. I love my baby but I was not expecting to start over after 8 years. I know I made the right decision to to keep her. I just wish I had help with kids and a job with my own place to live and car that is not going to break down every other month. I keep telling people I depressed they just keep telling not to let my dad's wife affect me. It is easier said than done. I wanted to go to school for RN since I was staying here but that is not even an option now. I have to just find a job so I can move out even if it is a one bedroom.