16 days till my due date 😋 docs said that with an open cervix 2cm dilated, nearly completely thinned out, 2/5ths engaged and contractions non stop I should have my baby before that but I have come to terms with the fact that I'm literally having a princess who already makes her own rules 😂👸🏾👑
It's crazy as they say every pregnancy is different but I feel like they haven't took this one as serious as my first :/ it's stupid logic!! And thanks Hun 😇 x
Omg I seriously feel the same way! I feel like they would listen to use more if it was our first child 😕. I hope ur able to get ur sweep X
Thanks Hun well this appointment is Ameant to be my due date appointment but they didn't have one on my actual date so having no it tomorrow so I'm gunna try to get a sweep lol don't see just because it's our second that it should be any different, were still in pain and discomfort just like first pregnancies!! Feel so shrugged off just because I've already had one 😂 xx
🙈 oh my!, might as well get comfortable then lol. The midwife who checked if I was engaged was really nice and she didn't mind, however some Midwifes were like there's no point because it's ur second child so they can pop in and out and they didn't do it 😒. For the examinations they had to do that anyway so there was no problem there 🙂 xx @beadyeyes93
My first was 11 days late so have a feeling this one will be too lol 🙈 and oh right it's crazy I've been getting what I thought was irregular contractions but they just stop within like two hours or so I have an appointment this Friday so might asked to be checked lol did they give you grief when you asked? Or where they just like yea ok 😅 well hope baba won't keep you in pain for too long Hun!! Xx
Lool earlier would be very nice 😂😂@syrennajade x
Well everyone was talking about being engaged and because I hardly see my midwife when I went to my growth scan I asked one of the Midwifes there to check for me. Then for the past week or so I have been having frequent contractions and have to keep going back to triage and they checked me with the speculum but then moved onto finger examinations because my cervix was open. The last time I went was the 15th of this month so hopefully I'm 3 now 😂 But unless I'm in pain and have to go back to triage I doubt I will find out again. You literally have to beg these doctors to do their jobs unfortunately. It seems like they are not consistent some docs do this and some docs do that 🙄. Thank you babe, and I hope things start to get going for you really soon Hun x @beadyeyes93
How do thy know how dilated ect you are? Like I mean I know how they check but they haven't done any of those type of checks with me.. Not even told me if his head is far down ect.. Absolute nada!! Oh n I'm due in 3 days.. But I have my fingers crossed for you though 😇💜 xx
Aww our babies could share the same birthday, hopefully our babies come on time then ☺️ @syrennajade x
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
That's such a good point! Honestly it don't make sense because right now they are basing this pregnancy on my first one just because everything was fine although I'm still a high risk patient 🙄. I think that's why it's just best to do what u think is right and trust urself. @beadyeyes93 x