has anyone on here while pregnant had the thought cross their mind that they actually aren't ready…

I actually had days where I regretted getting pregnant. I didn't think I could handle it, I was terrified and we had just moved in with his mom because we couldn't afford our place. but now that she's here, I'm so happy. I'm still terrified but she's so worth every thing.

I'm so scared.. and I feel selfish because every time I save money I end up spending it. and I think that's what's got me down today.

@mrsdoyle,

well, once baby is here you won't be able to spend any money on other stuff besides them. so I don't think it's bad to spend some money on yourself. don't beat yourself up over it.

Its scary and super overwhelming but as soon as your little one arrives it all kicks in and you just go into overdrive making sure they have all they could ever want or need!

I think whenever I want to spend money I'm just gonna make myself go buy baby stuff . @mrsdoyle that way at least the money I'm spending is going to the baby and not fast food... lol.

that's smart, but don't worry if you splurge on stuff for yourself too! sometimes you need to.

I'm so freaked out by it. We barely get by as is so it scares me to think of buying diapers and anything else he might need. But I try to stay positive. As long as the baby comes first, I think everything will work out. But the whole idea does scare the crap out of me too.

Yes all the time.

@nicipicky, exactly !! I'm so worried