it is unbelievable how people health shame pregnant women. I posted something yesterday on facebook that said I overpowered a cake craving and ate a plum instead (you may have seen it, I posted it here as well.) you would not believe how many people posted shaming me for "not giving baby what she wants?" is baby going to run off the unnecessary weight I gain by giving in to every sugary sweet craving? NO! Will baby benefit more from cake that gives her no nutritional value or a fit, healthy, happy mommy when she finally makes her appearance? I would say the latter. of all the choices I make as a new mother I NEVER thought I would have to defend my healthy snack choices.