It really must be nice to be father. They get to have their cake and eat it too. I only wish I still had the freedom I had before the baby. I envy the fact that her dad can still do whatever he feels, and not have to worry about his kid at all. He literally will leave around 7, and not come back till 5 in morning. And the thing that kills me is he won't even check in on her ... Or me.. Sometimes I could use a full nights sleep or an extra hour or two to sleep in on my off days. But it's like baby is 100% my responsibility and 50% his. 😔