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When my SO 10 and 9 year old daughters come to stay with us he is so rude to me... I don't get it!!! I spent the night…

When my SO 10 and 9 year old daughters come to stay with us he is so rude to me... I don't get it!!! I spent the night hiding in the bedroom with the baby... Just sucks... All I asked is the girls clean up after themselves... Didn't ask for them to do chores or help with Anything else... I'm handling it all and doing it all with a newborn that I'm breastfeeding ... Just asked they clean up after themselves... Am I so awful? I feel like an outcast when they are here... Makes me sad.

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gcpaschal

Gwendolyn Paschal

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Stand up for yourself. You set the tone. Don't hide when it comes to something you believe in. You're an adult.

beelynn

Brandi

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Thank you ladies... I do need to stand up ... I just don't have the energy to argue plus I hate looking like the bad guy... It's dumb I know :( ugh.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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do you... Clean up after your SO is done cooking? Or vice versa? DF was cooking and while he was cooking I unloaded the…

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