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Brittany
Brittany
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So random question. Last night I was induced, got a epidural and I kept telling her I felt a lot of pressure in my butt…

So random question. Last night I was induced, got a epidural and I kept telling her I felt a lot of pressure in my butt area and my vagina like his head is right there and she stuck her finger up my butt hole for some reason..... Today I had my baby at 6:59am I didn't tear so I didn't need stitches but my butt hole hurts so bad that I'm having to get meds because she apparently ripped my anus while "checking me" and she said she had to use more that one finger but couldn't tell me why she did it. I had a epidural that I had control over how much I got with a clicker plus I still felt the pain so I got more pain meds added into my IV so I couldn't feel my legs and lower half at all, an she who stuck her fingers up my butt wouldn't help me turn in the bed when my babies heart rate was bottoming out at 45 and all of a sudden jumping up to 115 then 140 she said I could do i could turn myself. I couldn't feel my damn ass much less my legs so how would I turn myself? Then when it came to how far along I am cm wise I was 9 cm last night at 10 pm remember I can't feel anything any longer..... She let me lay there complete from 12 pm to the 2 hours before my son was due because I started pushing and had him at 6:59 am. Back up a little.... She came into the room at 1 am and told me she had delivered 6 other babies during her shift so she hopes I can hold off on having my baby until she leaves at 7 am because she really doesn't have the energy to work with another pregnant mom and the delivery process. THEN when I went to have my baby he had been sitting in the birth canal for so long that his head was swollen they had to use forceps on me telling me that if they didn't work that they would have to use the vacuum which they know will pop off so they will have to take me for c-section. So thankfully after 30 mins of pulling on my baby's head they finally delivered him and he has been perfect ever since. He has a black eye which is swollen, broken skin on his head on the back, and a bruised ear lobe from the forceps ): poor little guy.

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kdchaos

Kadie

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)

wow she sounds absolutely awful 😠 poor baby boy 😢 she should be fired immediately.

ktwins188

Kassandra

Мама двоих (младенец)

why would she even put her fingers in your butt? there's no need for that wtf

ktwins188

Kassandra

Мама двоих (младенец)

sue her!! straight up!!

allyandbabies

Ally

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

Keep the pics of your bruises and a paper trail of everything that she said and report her. There's no excuse for that

easton.tylers.mommy

Brittany

Мама сына-младенца

I have a bruise on my thighs from where she was so rough with me, I taped down ice packs to make the bruising and swelling go down.

easton.tylers.mommy

Brittany

Мама сына-младенца

She would I would lean to one side grab my thigh the best I could to pull it up and then pull it up the rest of the way then my fiancée would try to hold the other leg but she wanted me to still grab it for "leverage" @shann

mamabearof3____

Leon Marleigh & Hendrix’s Mommy ❤️🤞🏾

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Report her!!!! She sounds like a absolute nightmare!!!! That is ridiculous!!!!

shannwoww83

Shannon

Мама троих детей

wtf yeah she does not deserve her job she needs to pay, how on earth are you supposed to hold your own legs up seeing as you couldn't feel them.

graycensmomma

Autumn

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I'd report and sue her that girl is a straight out bitch.

usmcwife

Stacy

В ожидании первенца

girl definitely report her like everyone else said!! I would be an absolute wreck if someone treated me that way especially during labor!

easton.tylers.mommy

Brittany

Мама сына-младенца

The nurse supervisor came to talk to me earlier.

brittanycheri

Brittany

Мама дочки-младенца

I bet you holding you own legs made him stuck in there that's crazy!!! My husbands and 2 other nurse had to hold mine while I pushed!! You were probably folded wrong.erg that makes me made for you!!! @easton.tylers.mommy

desirechild

Nadenka

В ожидании первенца

Yes report that plz , congratulations on your sweetie :))

easton.tylers.mommy

Brittany

Мама сына-младенца

My fiancée got mad at her an told her she needed to give him instructions to what to do because she was telling my fiancée "alright daddy time to do your job" an he was like "well I don't deliver babies everyday so what do I do" an she went and called security on my fiancée because she felt like he was being aggressive with her and scared her by getting pissed that she was saying and doing all she was doing. She told my boyfriend many times she didn't like his tattoos because they looked scary and mean. When I was getting my epidural I threw up so my mom got me a trash can to throw up in an it was the morning shift leaving and the lady I'm talking about coming into work and her way of introducing herself was snatching my trash can away saying it was unsanitary an I threw up in the floor again an she let it sit there until my mom cleaned it up. Also while I was in labor she made me hold my own legs, didn't put me in stirrups mind you I couldn't even lift my legs, turn over on my own much less feel to push I had to guess I was doing it right which I wasn't which is why they used the forceps as well.... Anyhow. Imagine holding your legs that you can't feel and it's like your holding someone else's legs. @allyandbabies @brittanycheri @krystalft.two @mommyof2_88 @usmcwife

brittanycheri

Brittany

Мама дочки-младенца

I'd sue! That lady sounds crazy!! My nurse stayed with me even after her shift was over to help me along. That's insane!! I'm sorry you went through that. But on a lighter know those dimples are amazing!! So cute congrats mama!

easton.tylers.mommy

Brittany

Мама сына-младенца

I don't know.... She wouldn't answer me. I asked her 3 times why she did because even with a epidural I could feel pressure and she was jamming her fingers in my butt to where I asked her why she was doing it. So if I feel her in my butt apart from my vagina and it was that much pressure to where she was knuckle deep what was she looking for? Besides to be mean?! Any time I asked the nurse a question she would either ignore me or give me a generic answer that I could make up off the top of my head. @allyandbabies

for_the_love_of_them123456

Pumpkin

report her ass ASAP!!!

usmcwife

Stacy

В ожидании первенца

Omg that sounds awful 😯 this is my first baby so I can't really answer your question but I'm sorry she was like that

krystalft.3

Krystal Beyard

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (10 нед.)

😳 never heard of that happening before.. But congrats on your little man! 🙂

mommyof2_88

jasmine

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

yeah that's what I don't get either your butt has nothing to do with labor lol did she do it on accident?doesn't sound pleasant when your least expecting it..@easton.tylers.mommy,

allyandbabies

Ally

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

Why'd she stick her finger in your butt?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?