So random question. Last night I was induced, got a epidural and I kept telling her I felt a lot of pressure in my butt area and my vagina like his head is right there and she stuck her finger up my butt hole for some reason..... Today I had my baby at 6:59am I didn't tear so I didn't need stitches but my butt hole hurts so bad that I'm having to get meds because she apparently ripped my anus while "checking me" and she said she had to use more that one finger but couldn't tell me why she did it. I had a epidural that I had control over how much I got with a clicker plus I still felt the pain so I got more pain meds added into my IV so I couldn't feel my legs and lower half at all, an she who stuck her fingers up my butt wouldn't help me turn in the bed when my babies heart rate was bottoming out at 45 and all of a sudden jumping up to 115 then 140 she said I could do i could turn myself. I couldn't feel my damn ass much less my legs so how would I turn myself? Then when it came to how far along I am cm wise I was 9 cm last night at 10 pm remember I can't feel anything any longer..... She let me lay there complete from 12 pm to the 2 hours before my son was due because I started pushing and had him at 6:59 am. Back up a little.... She came into the room at 1 am and told me she had delivered 6 other babies during her shift so she hopes I can hold off on having my baby until she leaves at 7 am because she really doesn't have the energy to work with another pregnant mom and the delivery process. THEN when I went to have my baby he had been sitting in the birth canal for so long that his head was swollen they had to use forceps on me telling me that if they didn't work that they would have to use the vacuum which they know will pop off so they will have to take me for c-section. So thankfully after 30 mins of pulling on my baby's head they finally delivered him and he has been perfect ever since. He has a black eye which is swollen, broken skin on his head on the back, and a bruised ear lobe from the forceps ): poor little guy.
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why would she even put her fingers in your butt? there's no need for that wtf
Keep the pics of your bruises and a paper trail of everything that she said and report her. There's no excuse for that
She would I would lean to one side grab my thigh the best I could to pull it up and then pull it up the rest of the way then my fiancée would try to hold the other leg but she wanted me to still grab it for "leverage" @shann
Report her!!!! She sounds like a absolute nightmare!!!! That is ridiculous!!!!
wtf yeah she does not deserve her job she needs to pay, how on earth are you supposed to hold your own legs up seeing as you couldn't feel them.
I'd report and sue her that girl is a straight out bitch.
girl definitely report her like everyone else said!! I would be an absolute wreck if someone treated me that way especially during labor!
I bet you holding you own legs made him stuck in there that's crazy!!! My husbands and 2 other nurse had to hold mine while I pushed!! You were probably folded wrong.erg that makes me made for you!!! @easton.tylers.mommy
Yes report that plz , congratulations on your sweetie :))
My fiancée got mad at her an told her she needed to give him instructions to what to do because she was telling my fiancée "alright daddy time to do your job" an he was like "well I don't deliver babies everyday so what do I do" an she went and called security on my fiancée because she felt like he was being aggressive with her and scared her by getting pissed that she was saying and doing all she was doing. She told my boyfriend many times she didn't like his tattoos because they looked scary and mean. When I was getting my epidural I threw up so my mom got me a trash can to throw up in an it was the morning shift leaving and the lady I'm talking about coming into work and her way of introducing herself was snatching my trash can away saying it was unsanitary an I threw up in the floor again an she let it sit there until my mom cleaned it up. Also while I was in labor she made me hold my own legs, didn't put me in stirrups mind you I couldn't even lift my legs, turn over on my own much less feel to push I had to guess I was doing it right which I wasn't which is why they used the forceps as well.... Anyhow. Imagine holding your legs that you can't feel and it's like your holding someone else's legs. @allyandbabies @brittanycheri @krystalft.two @mommyof2_88 @usmcwife
I'd sue! That lady sounds crazy!! My nurse stayed with me even after her shift was over to help me along. That's insane!! I'm sorry you went through that. But on a lighter know those dimples are amazing!! So cute congrats mama!
I don't know.... She wouldn't answer me. I asked her 3 times why she did because even with a epidural I could feel pressure and she was jamming her fingers in my butt to where I asked her why she was doing it. So if I feel her in my butt apart from my vagina and it was that much pressure to where she was knuckle deep what was she looking for? Besides to be mean?! Any time I asked the nurse a question she would either ignore me or give me a generic answer that I could make up off the top of my head. @allyandbabies
Omg that sounds awful 😯 this is my first baby so I can't really answer your question but I'm sorry she was like that
😳 never heard of that happening before.. But congrats on your little man! 🙂
yeah that's what I don't get either your butt has nothing to do with labor lol did she do it on accident?doesn't sound pleasant when your least expecting it..@easton.tylers.mommy,
Why'd she stick her finger in your butt?
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