Don't give me shit for this.
But I don't feel a bond with my baby.. Like I don't feel like I'm important to her idk
I just feel like a failure parent and sometimes I tend to think what if I didn't have her I know it sounds so awful but I've been going through the that lately and idk what it is? I love my baby more than life itself but idk i just don't feel right
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Thanks! I think I will if I don't start feeling a bond in the next couple weeks @teambarnes
I don't think anyone should give you shit over this. It's actually more common for moms to go through this than you think. It took my sister a while to bond with her daughter because it was her second baby and she just didn't feel that same bond that she did when her son was born. It's kind of like the baby blues. A lot of times it's due to hormones and can go away on its own but if it doesn't, talk to your doctor about it :)
I just read an article on this in the what to expect app...it said that half of all new moms feel like this for the first couple of mos, so don't beat yourself up, the bond will happen