found my BD on a few dating cites confronted him about it of course he lied...after I had proof he claim he deleted it…

😘 I'm glad you're being strong!! you most definitely will fine happiness in your future...💓

well she's 7 ...I won't cut him out completely because he is a good dad and believe it or not he's a good person ...he's just not the person I'm ment to spend the rest of my life with....maybe the next person will be better....I'm not innocent in our relationship but sometimes you have see things for what they are and not what you want it to be...and I'm learning that after this last incident...smh....live goes on and it's definitely happiness in my future

i know mama 😞 unfortunately i completely understand what youre going through..it's one of the worst feelings ever to feel betrayed and lied to like you're not good enough for the truth... people like him are very selfish and narcissistic. u may never know the full truth and if you have to start playing "detective" in any relationship, then it's really time to move on...I'm not even letting my BD co-parent. He's a terrible lying idiot and i don't want my kid growing up to be anything like him! plus he's a heroin addict and he's back in prison now! he'll pull the same shit when he gets out so im cutting him out 100% and i stand by that. how old is your baby that u have now?

@justine_kim that's the part that killing he won't admit to it so I can't move pass it....I'm at the breaking point and when I'm done I'm done...we will only Co parents

there's really no point in lying...i dont know why people even do it...it's the lack of trust after a lie that ruins a relationship...I was willing to work through my ex cheating on me at first but because he wouldnt man up to it EVER(he would get mad when i would bring it up even after a few weeks but g0ddamn my wounds were so fresh and we never resolved it...he kept saying quit rubbing my face in the same pile of shit), i saw no point on continuing our relationship...all he kept saying was "i got no reason to lie" uhhh excuse me!!!! i told him "People who have nothing to hide dont usually feel the need to say so..." girl he was NOT worth that stress...im so blessed i moved on.sometimes we get jaded by what we call love and we lose our morals and values along the way...never again. i know what im worth and what i deserve and i finally have it. i promise you'll get there too...whether it be with him or someone else, you will get there...

@justine_kim thanks for the advice ...I tell him he's just like the movie focus Die With The Lie...it's sad that he didn't realize what he had....but that's on him

ughh my ex was the SAME way..i found proof, screenshot that shit & he still denied it...mind u his profile pic was even a pic that I took of him on my camera omggg.i hate these fuckin trashy ass dating sites 😡 but u know what?! if ur man cared he wouldnt have even been on them... i left my ex & after that incident, i found an amazing SEXY as hell man who won't even look at other women except me! one of my favorite quotes is "why go out for hamburgers when you got steak at home?!" lol im telling u girl...these men nowadays are catching "stupid" like it's a disease... you'll find better if u really want to ✌😘

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thanks @indigenousmommy I hope so too because if they don't change him being in my life will

Nobody deserves a relationship where they feel like giving up. I hope things get better for you. Just know your worth! If he's looking at others he's no good imo.