For me I rub between the eyes and eye brows and make a "shhh" noise . It sometimes works

Yes it's been tilted sense she was 10weeks old and now it seems to be getting worse what did you do to calm your baby I've tried so much

Eesh. I'm sorry girly. My daughter never had it that bad. Do they tilt her bed?

Yes she actually has it very badly and their doing test to do surgery for her reflux bc it's actually getting into her lungs, but in the mean time I really want to calm her down she gets so fussy and she's still on the vent and their trying to do a small amount of bubble c pap but she's been so fussy they cannot do the bubble c pap again til she calms down

Is it possible she has reflux? My daughter was fussy in the NICU because she had very bad reflux. Its quite common in preemies