5 days post natal after having my princess by emergency c section things have become very hard in my house. my partner…
5 days post natal after having my princess by emergency c section things have become very hard in my house. my partner is great and his helped me so much with looking after me. but got a very short fuse all of a sudden no patience and seems constantly stressed. I'm constantly crying. I have 4 boys ages 17.15.11.4 before I got with him we been together a year and his been okay with my boys until now. his constantly stressing and shouting and we're have become snapping at each other we have never argued. he cant stand hearing his new baby daughter cry he gets worked up just don't no what to do so much has changed so quick and I'm scared of it getting worse not better. I need to concentrate on recovery my baby and toddler older ones are okay.
these 15 years age difference between me and him his 20 I'm 35. don't think he realised how hard it was going to be
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
Мама дочки-младенца
My daughter is 4 weeks and my OH is exactly the same! He is very snappy with me and irritable all the time. He gets very wound up and stressed when she cries. I think guys have a harder time adjusting because they don't quite believe they're going to have s baby until the baby is born where as us mums carry them for 9 months xx
kelly·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
men! that's prob what it is hunni it's just so hard and crazy how much his changed just hope he doesn't stay like that. hope your oh adapts soon hunni xx
Suzanna bishop·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Men do and can change after the baby is born. They don't cope like we do
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (34 нед.)
@flick9, this is what i worry about. xx
kelly·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
it's strange I never thought it would affect him like this where he snaps at everyone and everything. even worried about leaving him alone with baby has he gets wound up easy. hope yours is different @tg123456789 I really do has its horrible xx
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (34 нед.)
ive a positive feeling ill be in same boat @flick9 xx
kelly·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
not good sweetie it's horrible. I just wanna cry all the time because his constantly at my other kids and these no reason to be kids will be kids. no patience with baby either can't live like this. relationship was solid until brought baby home now it's a nightmare xxx
Diane·
Мама троих детей
i was the same hun and there ten years age gap with me and my oh.. im 35 hes 25 it was his first baby to... stick it out hun it gets better i also had a c section its tuff i no... bloody hormones eh.. im always here if you need to talk xxx
kelly·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
aww thank you @babyboots means alot xxx