5 days post natal after having my princess by emergency c section things have become very hard in my house. my partner is great and his helped me so much with looking after me. but got a very short fuse all of a sudden no patience and seems constantly stressed. I'm constantly crying. I have 4 boys ages 17.15.11.4 before I got with him we been together a year and his been okay with my boys until now. his constantly stressing and shouting and we're have become snapping at each other we have never argued. he cant stand hearing his new baby daughter cry he gets worked up just don't no what to do so much has changed so quick and I'm scared of it getting worse not better. I need to concentrate on recovery my baby and toddler older ones are okay.
these 15 years age difference between me and him his 20 I'm 35. don't think he realised how hard it was going to be
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i was the same hun and there ten years age gap with me and my oh.. im 35 hes 25 it was his first baby to... stick it out hun it gets better i also had a c section its tuff i no... bloody hormones eh.. im always here if you need to talk xxx
not good sweetie it's horrible. I just wanna cry all the time because his constantly at my other kids and these no reason to be kids will be kids. no patience with baby either can't live like this. relationship was solid until brought baby home now it's a nightmare xxx
ive a positive feeling ill be in same boat @flick9 xx
it's strange I never thought it would affect him like this where he snaps at everyone and everything. even worried about leaving him alone with baby has he gets wound up easy. hope yours is different @tg123456789 I really do has its horrible xx
@flick9, this is what i worry about. xx
Men do and can change after the baby is born. They don't cope like we do
men! that's prob what it is hunni it's just so hard and crazy how much his changed just hope he doesn't stay like that. hope your oh adapts soon hunni xx
My daughter is 4 weeks and my OH is exactly the same! He is very snappy with me and irritable all the time. He gets very wound up and stressed when she cries. I think guys have a harder time adjusting because they don't quite believe they're going to have s baby until the baby is born where as us mums carry them for 9 months xx
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Okay so who has their kids so close in age I have a few questions????
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this has been the most stressful day..... Baby daddy got locked up yesterday and his bond is 4,500.... I'm so stressed. FINALLY find a bail bondsmen that can do $225. But i dont have that laying around..then on top of it ...this is his MOTHER TEXTING ME! (The order is prob backwards)
Okay Ladies I'm starting to become slightly annoying when me & my husband have sex 😂🙊 I'm all like I can't breath! I have a cramp on my belly! I'm not comfortable! Your going way too fast! I don't think the baby likes that! Are you almost finished? 😂😂🙈🙊 I'm happy he still finds me attractive being so big but gosh I'm just a complainer now lol 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
🚨 TMI, 🚨I'm so tired of this nasty ass discharge going through my panties and clothes , Its irritating having to change constantly 😌😑😖😠😔
aww thank you @babyboots means alot xxx