@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Just a little rant here. I would love for some feed back from the other moms: My apt yesterday went okay. Baby boy is healthy. He actually is measuring 36wks and 6days a head of me. He’s 5lbs 13oz. He’s a little chunky. I do not have gestational diabetes or anything else to cause him to be so far a head of me. He’s just always been measuring two-three weeks a head. My Dr said he is on pace to be a 9 1/2lb baby by 38 weeks. She said they will check his growth again at 38 weeks to see if we need to change my birth plan to C section. I straight up told her, no I do not want one. I want to be induced at 36-37 weeks. She straight up said “ I refuse to induce because you baby is big. Just because he is measuring a head doesn’t mean his lungs are ready.” I said that’s why I asked between 36-37 weeks. 37 weeks is considered full term. 99.9% of babies survive. She said no still because she’s lost babies before at that time. I said well we didn’t lose my daughter now did we? She said no we didn’t but it’s not something she will do. I told her I won’t have a C section. So what should I do now? She said because of his size and my history, I might go into labor before then. If I do they will stop him from coming. I’m super pissed and I have no idea what to do. Any advice????
This girl on my fb is 8 weeks pregnant with her first child and she said she felt the baby 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ people these days 😂😂😂
little man can b here sooner then his due date friday, doc said she wouldn't b surprised if she don't see me for my last appt Thursday and won't b surprised if I have him early , hopefully she telling me something, still 1 cm though so hopefully he comes soon , been so uncomfortable she did say I was having early labor pains all in my back have them 1 in every 10 mins , be3n having pain sides and stomach pressure come on little man, 😍😍😚😚😚💙💚💛
Amber·
I saw my daughter at 12 weeks, and 20 weeks. They didn't get all the measurements and stuff at the 20 week ultrasound so I had another at 24 but was told I will be getting no more. I haven't seen her in about 12 weeks. I can't wait to have her here.
Darian Weaver·
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You might get one more around 36 weeks to check baby's size and position! It's pretty normal to not have any more after your anatomy scan though.
Jocelyn·
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I got one at 7 weeks to check viability the anatomy scan at 20 weeks and am only getting one more to check babys weight and position later in pregnancy it the norm unless something is wrong with your baby or you are high risk
BANNED - Liv Ola·
i was wondering how they would know his size & stuff later on, i just hate the wait lol i know im not the only impatient one i guess i just got spoiled at the specialist every 2 weeks, but i thought u got 1 or 2 more for some reason. 😕 thanks ladies.. @darianweaver @joceyyyy @schu35
Amber·
I want to see her one more time too. I really am curious to find out how much her estimated weight is especially because I'm afraid she's gonna be huge. My doctor hasn't said anything. I hope they change their minds for both of us
BANNED - Liv Ola·
right! like ppl post their pics & u can clearly see their babies lips full grown lmao i have to see his lips in a few weeks!!! so when ppl get 3D u/s they must pay out of pocket huh? cuz they told me insurance doesnt cover more than what ive had done already.. @schu35
Amber·
@babyointhemaking, I know you can go to private places and pay for 3D ultrasounds. I don't want to pay out of pocket though lol. I know if your doctor gives you another one they should do a 3D one and you'll get pictures. Mine did at 24 weeks. I'm so amazed at some of the ultrasound pictures, they are so clear and you can see every detail of the little baby. Makes me jealous!
BANNED - Liv Ola·
i know! she did say i could try talking to my dr which of course i will, but im with u i wont pay out of pocket either... ugh the struggle! @schu35
Amber·
I agree. Hopefully your doctor will give you one more:) I figured it would be necessary in order to see their positioning and get the approximate weight before delivery
BANNED - Liv Ola·
so did i! we shall see... hope yours does too! i sure will be asking! @schu35
Amber·
Thank you 😀