you can not demand that people look at breastfeeding in public okay then turn around and judge others for chosing to formula feed .

you can not demand respect for being a stay at home mom but in turn judge other mothers for chosing to work or go to school to further their education or follow their dreams .

you can not say you want people to mind their own business when it comes to how you parent your child then turn around and pick apart someone elses parenting .

you can not sit there and tell someone all this crap on circumsizion and how " horrible " it is if you have in fact not had your son circumsized or vise versa .

you can not sit there and shove YOUR preferences parenting wise down someone elses throat then get pissed when someone tells you to shut the hell up .

having multiple kids does not make you an expert on parenting . everyone is different on how they choose to do things .

what you CAN do is stop being judgemental assholes and let everyone be pregnant/be a parent in peace and let them create their own family memories and let them go on this journey the way they want to . everyone has been first time mothers or are right now like myself . its so annoying seeing so much drama over something so beautiful ( and painful 😅 ) . everyone is aloud to have their own opinions and ways of parenting . and making people feel stupid or obligated to do something when they ask a simple question is ridiculous . i come here to let my pregnancy hormones fly free without being judged . i come here to ask questions to get real life experiences & it takes forever to get thru to my midwife sometimes , not to be told i better do this or i better do that . ive gotten really good advice and talked to many amazing people on here , but some of the women on here are down right ridiculous and nasty for no apparent reason .