I am super mad. I asked my in laws if we could do my baby shower in July. they agreed well now its moved to fucking September. on my husbands birthday weekend and labor day weekend. i am having twins and my due date is the 28th of October. when I told her "what if I have them before than" her response is that they will probably still be in the nicu and we will have time but if my babies are in the Nicu I how can I enjoy my baby shower. I didn't ask for anything besides an early shower and I'm pissed.