God forbid the OH cancels his plans to play bloody football to go swimming at the open air pool with me and his daughter. I made the suggestion since the weather is good but oh no as long as he does what he wants to do bugger me and his little girl who might I add I'm left with to look after alone again. Wouldn't be as much of kick in teeth if I hadn't promised her paddling pool when she got home to find he's ruined 2 that we had by not putting them away properly. I can't actually remember the last time we did something I wanted to do 😢