I was the same! I had my ob circumcise my son because I didn't trust anyone else. it turned out perfect and my son wasn't bothered by it at all. he's 2 weeks old and it's completely healed.

my husband and i were the same way. It happened so quick and baby came back sleeping that we totally forgot about him doing surgery. we just kept saying "At least they numb him up, and wont feel anything" They also give babies sugar water to suck on. They told me thats all my baby was worried about lol