So I decided I don't want anyone from my family in the delivery room ! Well let's just say the last time my mom was there and she told everyone of her friends every single detail of my delivery and I was and still embarrassed . Am I being selfish or should I just stick with my gut ? And how do I tell the hospital not to let anyone in until the baby is born ? Will they do that ?
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@rkline03, I think I'm going to ask my doctor for the paperwork for the hospital not to allow anyone too
@dabcw3814, yeah because if not EVERYONE Would be there And I don't want that
only one person is allowed to come back with me. I also filled out paperwork at the hospital only allowing that one person access and noone else. the hospital will not allow anyone else in.
I'm only having my fiance, my mom, and maybe my sister.. And I don't even want visitors that day I want to enjoy my daughter so I am going to have visitors the next day.
I think you should follow your instinct feeling and talk it over with your significant other. but I understand if you would feel guilty because it is your mom, so maybe you should have an honest convo with her and tell her how you felt. if you really don't want your mom in there with you, don't feel guilty. she experienced the first time. maybe you would enjoy being with just your husband the 2nd time around :)
@tara718, I tried talking to her she said that I'm disrespecting her if I do that because she is my mom and she allow to be there even if I don't want too ! But like I said I don't want anyone there.