@2added4itslove, thank you so much. I feel so depressed & heartbroken but it is what it is.

I wish you the best

take time the feeling will come when you know your ready. I don't know why your marriage didn't work, I had my own reasons for the way I felt and how fast I filed the papers. but you will know when the time is right and it will hit you. just breathe and take it a day at a time.

@2added4itslove,

ita just so hard, I feel stupid for not being able to see the truth :(

my husband can be so immature at times

when I was ready to accept that he was not going to mature and I needed to go forward and do what's best for me and my kids.